Can I request punitive damage in small claims court?

I loaned money to a friend to help cover costs for a family emergency. I drafted and had him sign a promissory note indicating that he would repay the amount in 5 installments over a period of 5 months which ends next month.

To date, I have received 1 “good” payment. He has given me two checks that have bounced and I received those checks only after constant “reminders” and “requests.” I gave him the opportunity to renegotiate the terms of the loan to a lower payment, I also gave him the opportunity to “recover” funds or at least admitting to me that he has difficulty making the payments.

Instead of doing this he gives me bad checks in the amount as specified in the original agreement. On my last verbal request to him for payment he told me to go “f— myself.” I found his response to be so offensive and insidious that I have decided to file a small claims complaint demanding the balance of the money owed, plus consequential damages (I borrowed the money from my 401k account) plus punitive damages. Please advise.

I am at the law library as I write this and I am not finding much of anything that says that I can even ask for punitive damages in a small claims court in Connecticut. My understanding is that punitive damages are damages intended to reform or deter the defendant and others from engaging in conduct similar to that which formed the basis of the lawsuit.

I think, however, if there was any example of insidious behavior that would warrant a “lesson to be learned” ruling it would be this one. Thanks for any info you can give.